They seem to fall in and out of favor every few years. Baby slings (also known as carriers, wraps, etc.) were once the method of choice for millions of moms and dads who wanted to carry their babies. Today, few parents use them and instead, invest hundreds of dollars in the latest suspension system-equipped strollers.
There are actually several reasons to consider using a carrier. From building your baby's sense of independence to helping her dad bond, slings can offer unique advantages for parents. This article will provide an overview of those advantages along with a few tips for choosing the right model.
From Womb To The World
When infants are born, they are forced to leave the warmth, comfort, and security of their homes (for the last nine months). That can have a jarring effect on some newborns. Wearing your infant in a wrap keeps her close to your body. She'll be able to feel your skin and warmth; both are comforting and can help her make an easier transition from the womb into the world. Car seats and strollers, while safe, cannot offer this type of physical contact. Neither can provide the same level of comfort.
Less Likely To Cry
Despite what many parents instinctively believe, babies do not always immediately start to cry when they want something (i.e. food, a clean diaper, etc.). They'll first attempt to get their point across by using other means. Because they cannot verbalize their needs, these first attempts quickly escalate into crying.
When you carry your little one in a wrap, you’ll be more conscious of her needs. You’ll hear her subtle fussing due to hunger. You’ll notice her body relaxing as she falls asleep. You'll become aware more quickly when she needs a new diaper. As a result, you'll be able to respond to her needs before she registers them by crying.
Bonding With Dad
For generations, fathers have assumed that the bond that exists between mothers and their babies stems from breastfeeding. In a sense, this assumption is true. However, the reason is often misunderstood. When a baby nurses, it is the physical contact with her mother that forms the strongest bond. It is the warmth of her mother's skin, the easy eye contact, and the reassuring sound of her heartbeat.
A sling provides an easy way for dads to offer their infants the same type of physical contact, warmth, and comfort. An infant will begin to identify the feel and scent of her father, and the tremor of his voice.
Encouraging Autonomy
In the U.S. and other western cultures, parents have customarily taught their kids to be independent. Experts suggest this may be one of the reasons moms and dads in western societies are likely to hold their children less than parents in countries where slings are commonly used.
Interestingly, some experts believe that not holding children close produces the opposite results. That is, kids who are held close to their parents are more likely to develop the confidence needed to be autonomous. An argument can thus be made that wearing your baby in a sling will encourage their independence down the road.
Selecting The Right Model
Slings, carriers, and wraps, come in different forms. Carriers are designed to hold babies in the front; they’re worn with straps that go over both shoulders. Slings and wraps are designed to be worn over one shoulder, similar to a bicycle messenger’s bag. The option you choose will depend on a number of factors.
If you're planning to breastfeed, a sling is better-suited for the task than a carrier. Also, consider whether you intend to use the wrap or carrier for practical purposes (i.e. holding your infant while shopping, etc.) or for bonding. Will you carry your baby in it for long periods each day or as an occasional alternative to your stroller? Think about the support you’ll need for your neck, back, and shoulders during long walks.
Using a sling, wrap, or carrier to transport your baby is a fantastic way to comfort and bond with her. It takes a little getting used to, but can play a key role in her healthy development.